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It's Okay to Kiss your homies Good Night

Men are trained to love their friends in a dialect of insults and silences.We say “bro” and mean “I would carry you out of a burning building.” We say “you’re an idiot” and mean “I missed you.” We send a meme at 1 AM and mean “I am thinking about you and I hope your life is going okay,” but the meme does the talking because the talking is, for reasons none of us can fully explain, physically difficult.

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